10 Signs Indicating Your Date Is Married
So you are into this new relationship with a man and its a great feeling isn’t it? You’re always looking forward to the next time you can be together. You get butterflies in the stomach when he calls you on the phone. But how do you know that he’s telling you the truth and not just taking you along for a nice ride? Do you have doubts that he might be married? Here are some ways you can at least raise a flag and do some more investigation.
- If he has to leave everytime the phone rings there is a good chance he’s trying to hide something. Even if he gives the excuse of his boss calling, think about it. What’s so personal with his boss that he can’t take the call in front of you? Unless of course, his boss is female and is asking him to do some night shifts.
- If he mentions – Iam separated and going to get divorce any hour from now. He might be deceptive. Let me rephrase this, its not that he might be, but that he is deceptive. The best thing to do is walk out and ask him to get a copy of the divorce if he’s interested on a second date.
If he shows up to your first date driving a Dodge Minivan. There better be a very compelling reason that he is driving one. Look out for stuffed toys or baby stuff in the car. But be wise in your judgement, if he drives a truck one day and a Corvette the next day, you better jump in the car. - Ask for his home phone number. Although its not foolproof as many people are dropping the landlines in favor of cell phones. Still, this along with other factors can help you find out if he is hiding something.
- He only meet at wierd hours. Like he asked you to meet him at 7:00 am in a coffee shop or he meets you only on Tuesday and Friday. Though there could be factors like university and other obligations to make your meeting hours/days repetitive; this along with other indicators is a good sign he is not flexible with his schedule. Usually a guy would dump all obligations to keep up with his date.
- If you have some doubts just casually tell him you want to drop by his house. Now he comes up with an excuse to stop you from coming; that means only two things – Either he doesn’t own/rent a house and live with his parents or there is someone already taking care of his house. I think either way you don’t want to date this guy.
- When you call him at odd hours it almost always goes to his voice mail and then he calls back, specially at night and weekends. Think about it if someone consistently miss calls, its a fairly good indication that he is not comfortable taking calls at this time. Now if you recall I mentioned night and weekends which means he definitely is not at work, so there is no work excuse not to take calls.
- He is reluctant taking a walk in the mall or in the park or visiting a very popular restaurant and he’s rather more comfortable in secluded places or sitting in the car. This is a bright red sign that he’s married as he wouldn’t risk the chance of getting caught in public places.
- If he’s never around on holidays there is a good chance he is married. Holidays are to spend time with his family. He may meet you a day before or a day later but not on that day.


































