If you don’t know the secret “language” of attraction, getting the women you want is going to be a long, hard road. Here are 5 tips to boost your skills at attracting women:

Be Different & Original

What is the common thing that most men do when they ask women out? You guessed right its either a lunch, dinner or just coffee. Don’t try to fake it but try to be little different when you get together and offer to do things that she least expected. You don’t have to break your wallet to be different. For e.g. take her to the highest point in your town where you have a breath taking view of the sunset, take her on a bike ride to this eatery that has a fascinating story behind, invite her for “a walk for cause” events etc.

Make Sure You are the Driver

Women like men who stay in control and have a plan. Make sure you call her up and explain what’s the plan unless its a surprise. Don’t make her work by having to make decisions. Pick her up on time, let her know if she should wear anything specific. When you are there, let her sit back and relax and take care of everything. Aristotle said that – A sign of a mature man is forethought.

Don’t Make Yourself Look Needy

One of the reasons attractive women look so confident is because they know that they have plenty of options. When you know you can walk out the door any time, it makes you much more attractive to women. So take time and create options. The one thing that all men who really are successful with women have in common is that they all have a great lives of their own, and they don’t need a woman in their lives to be happy. So go and look for a hobby before you go hunting.

Keep Some Mystery

Many guys make the mistake of opening the pandora’s box right on the table when they meet someone they are interested in. Let them discover your accomplishments, they will be much more impressed rather than you narrating them. If you drive a Ferrari you don’t have to wear a shirt with the its logo or wear a Ferrari watch to show your affinity towards the brand – that’s pure cockiness.

Be Unpredictable & Make Her Earn It

Two biggest thing women long for in relationship – anticipation and excitement. Men often make the mistake of being too predictable and thus loose the spark. So the next time you said you will call on a day – skip the day and tell her you were busy with your work, invite her over to take her out for dinner and take her to movies instead. If you keep her guessing you won’t have any problem keeping her around.

Also there is an old saying – People don’t value things that they don’t work for. The same apply to romance and dating also. Make sure you are not the only one putting all the efforts in the relationship. Occasionally make her come over to pick you up, help you with small errands. More work she puts into the relationship, the more she will value it.